Maybe…God wanted us to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that, when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

Maybe…when the door of happiness closes, another opens; but, oftentimes we look so long at the closed door that we don’t even see the new one which has been opened for us.

Maybe…it is true that we don’t know what we have got until we lose it, but it is also true that we don’t know what we have been missing until it arrives.

Maybe…the happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Maybe…the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; after all, you can’t go on successfully in life until you let go of your past mistakes, failures and heartaches.

Maybe…you should dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you dream of and want to do.

Maybe…there are moments in life when you miss someone – a parent, a spouse, a friend, a child — so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real.

Maybe…the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.

Maybe…you should always try to put yourself in others’ shoes. If you feel that something could hurt you, it probably will hurt the other person too.

Maybe…you should do something nice for someone every single day, even if it is simply to leave them alone.

Maybe…giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don’t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but, if it doesn’t, be content that it grew in yours.

Maybe…happiness waits for all those who cry, all those who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of all the people who have touched their lives.

Maybe…you shouldn’t go for looks; they can deceive; Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

Maybe…you should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.

And the last maybe…..when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Maybe…you should try to live your life so that when you die, you are the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying…

We may be uncertain on what are the reasons behind everything that happens in our life, what’s more important is our attitude towards it.

• Whatever makes you happy go for it. “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than what you did” – Francis Kong
• Surprises are meant to surprise us. Therefore each day be prepared for any surprise that will come.
• In decision making, don’t rush. Wrong decisions can never be taken back and its result can never be reverted
• God allows things to happen for a reason and a purpose… To teach us lessons for our own good and the people around us
• We can’t be everything to everyone. We can’t play all the roles in everyone’s life. We can’t please everybody.
• Never burnout your mind, body and emotion. It will affect everything.
• When we commit mistake, better admit it early than pretending we didn’t. Don’t lie as well. It will create more trouble in the long run.
• No matter how our clients pressures us on deadlines, remember they are still our clients. They paid for our salaries.
• If your expectations aren’t met, set higher expectations next time.
• Emotional pressure > Work Pressure. It’s really far harder and disturbing.  Finally,
• It isn’t always the best man wins. It isn’t always the best applicant is hired. It isn’t always the best employee receives the award. It isn’t always the best team wins the championship game. It isn’t always the best guy wins a woman’s heart.

Really random isn’t it? It only means one thing, the past week is indeed very stressful in the body, mind and heart.

And the highlight….

sweetest surprise…late realization…saddest reality…perfect stupidity(of me) *sigh*

“Free your heart from worries and hatred
and good things will come along…”

A simple thought that I told to a good friend of mine. A thought that was given more color than its meaning. A thought that bothered one’s mind and enlightened another.

A thought that once I told myself and here goes how it works.

The past few days, work has been so toxic. Attending two or more client meeting in a day; going on-field to catch up 7′oclock in the morning schedule; go back at the office to delegate task and assist the team in completing project deliverables. It’s really very tiring. I feel so exhausted…really exhausted.

While being super busy at work, there goes my friend’s father in the hospital. I receive text message from my sister asking for allowance, for payment of tuition fee. Our under-construction house is waiting for fund to be completed. Electric, water, phone and internet bill are coming. Really stressful! *sigh*

But the good thing about it, each morning I wake up, God gave me strength to continue and keep going. I would receive text messages from great people; enough messages to make a tired heart smile. I could see people greeting me so warm. I talk to people who makes me feel that they believe in me. I remember people whom I know they are praying for my safety and healing. I meet new people whom I can share, learn and work with. I receive invitation from people who wants to hear me speak and mingle with them again after so long.

I really don’t have to worry. I really don’t have to fear. I just have to be thankful of being stressed at work. Simply because many people are worried on how to find a job. More blessings are coming. More projects are closed by our Sales Team while other companies are closing.

For in everything I need; for in everything I ask the Lord. He provide. Tough times like this when all I know is trust and believe in Him, good things come along.